Showing posts with label Gay. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Gay. Show all posts

Friday, May 31, 2013

Khris Francis at MaineStreet Live


Some people say funny things, but I say things funny.
                                              -Don Rickles

He is Ogunquit's funny man, Khris Francis. This year's show is called "Last Man Standing". Khris Francis' show is actually the longest running one man comedy show in New England.

Khris is not only a wonderful storyteller and comic but also an amazing singer, and musician. Khris can also improvise, compose and sing a song upon request.  It is amazing to see.


His show is a mix of stand up comedy and sit down naughty-ness with an array of spicy language. His sold out shows are not for the faint of heart, and do contain adult content. Think gay Don Rickles.

Many of Khris' stories and come from his Italian heritage growing up in southern California. Khris still spends winters in southern California and tours in the winter when he is not in Ogunquit Maine.


I saw Khris' act  on opening night of the new MaineStreet Live. This new addition to the MaineStreet complex features a cabaret room with a bar, stage, VIP area and splendid roof deck that overlooks the busy Ogunquit Square. Khris works the room and actually makes patrons participate is some of his routines.This lucky guy showed everyone what he is made of, and of course what his abs are made of!  Warning: There are no sacred cows.




The Details:
Khris Francis "Last Man Standing Show"
MaineStreet Live
Main Street
Ogunquit, ME 03907
Phone 207 646 5101
Show times Thurs to Sunday 8pm $10

Saturday, February 23, 2013

Inaugural Poet Richard Blanco in Miami

"Well, I think we're finally American" Richard Blanco said to his mother after reading his poem at President Obama's inauguration  on January 21, 2013




I saw Richard Blanco at the Adrienne Arsht Center in Miami this past Friday.  Richard Blanco describes himself as being made in Cuba, born in Spain and growing up in Cuban Miami. Blanco now lives in Bethel Maine with his partner. Blanco's American journey is fascinating yet also inspiring. His poems are a prism of how he sees  life.  Life as an immigrant living in Miami. Life as a gay man, and life as an American growing up in the late 20th century.




Blanco read  some poetry  from (City of a Hundred Fires, Directions to The Beach of the Dead, and Looking for The Gulf Motel). He also read his inaugural poem.

Blanco described how he was picked to be the official poet for President Obama's address. Blanco stated that he did not apply for the position, but was chosen. He described how he read the address in Washington and then turned to his Cuban born mother with limited English skills and said " Well, I think We're finally American". 

My favorite poem was this, which he read:

Looking for The Gulf Motel

Marco Island, Florida

There should be nothing here I don't remember . . .


The Gulf Motel with mermaid lampposts 
and ship's wheel in the lobby should still be 
rising out of the sand like a cake decoration. 
My brother and I should still be pretending 
we don't know our parents, embarrassing us 
as they roll the luggage cart past the front desk 
loaded with our scruffy suitcases, two-dozen 
loaves of Cuban bread, brown bags bulging 
with enough mangos to last the entire week, 
our espresso pot, the pressure cooker—and 
a pork roast reeking garlic through the lobby. 
All because we can't afford to eat out, not even 
on vacation, only two hours from our home 
in Miami, but far enough away to be thrilled 
by whiter sands on the west coast of Florida, 
where I should still be for the first time watching 
the sun set instead of rise over the ocean.

There should be nothing here I don't remember . . .

My mother should still be in the kitchenette 
of The Gulf Motel, her daisy sandals from Kmart 
squeaking across the linoleum, still gorgeous 
in her teal swimsuit and amber earrings 
stirring a pot of arroz-con-pollo, adding sprinkles 
of onion powder and dollops of tomato sauce. 
My father should still be in a terrycloth jacket 
smoking, clinking a glass of amber whiskey 
in the sunset at the Gulf Motel, watching us 
dive into the pool, two boys he'll never see 
grow into men who will be proud of him.

There should be nothing here I don't remember . . .

My brother and I should still be playing Parcheesi
my father should still be alive, slow dancing 
with my mother on the sliding-glass balcony 
of The Gulf Motel. No music, only the waves 
keeping time, a song only their minds hear 
ten-thousand nights back to their life in Cuba. 
My mother's face should still be resting against 
his bare chest like the moon resting on the sea, 
the stars should still be turning around them.


There should be nothing here I don't remember . . .

My brother should still be thirteen, sneaking 
rum in the bathroom, sculpting naked women 
from sand. I should still be eight years old 
dazzled by seashells and how many seconds 
I hold my breath underwater—but I'm not. 
I am thirty-eight, driving up Collier Boulevard, 
looking for The Gulf Motel, for everything 
that should still be, but isn't. I want to blame 
the condos, their shadows for ruining the beach 
and my past, I want to chase the snowbirds away 
with their tacky mansions and yachts, I want 
to turn the golf courses back into mangroves, 
I want to find The Gulf Motel exactly as it was 
and pretend for a moment, nothing lost is lost.



After listening to Richard Blanco, my buddy Jay, and I went to Little Havana to our favorite restaurant "Versailles Restaurant" for a little cafecito and a light dinner!  Always worth the trip "Versailles" is open late and is lively with many Cuban-Americans dining, drinking and enjoying late night pastries and coffee!












Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Sunset in Manuel Antonio, Cost Rica

Sunsets over the Pacific in Manuel Antonio should not be missed. The resort area of Manuel Antonio / Quepos is nine degrees above the equator. There is virtually equal parts of day and night all year round.


Many restaurants/bars have incredible views and offer sunset specials starting @ 4pm to 7pm. The Costa Rican mountains are lush with jungle and cascade into the Pacific ocean. Late afternoon the sky over the Pacific emerges from blue to a kaleidoscope of colors as the sun melts into the endless sea.


One day Michael and I spent the entire day on the beach, and watched the sun fade into the Pacific.



Other days we went to the famed Barba Roja restaurant to watch the sunset. Barba Roja is one of the "mainstays" of Manuel Antonio. Its one of the oldest restaurants. It's a hangout for Ticos, expats and tourists alike.


One of our favorite places is a newer establishment called Mogambo at Rapheal's Terraza's. This little sunset bar caters to a gay clientele and is lively (especially on Sundays). The views are perfect. The right amount of jungle and Pacific. Isla Magote and other islands make a nice backdrop for a dramatic sunset.


The bar has a great happy hour with two for one, and there is a cute restaurant locate down below. The bar/restaurant is locate halfway between the beach and the top of the hill on the "Manuel Antonio Road" aka careterra. While at this bar, we ran into people we knew from Boston. You never know who you may meet in the jungle!


If you are visiting the west coast of Costa Rica, you cannot miss the amazing sunsets....

The Details:
Bar Mogambo at Raphael's Terraza's 
(Sunset bar located above restaurant)
On the Manuel Antonio Road going toward the beach
Gay Clientele
Open Tuesday to Sunday 4pm to Midnight. Closed Monday. Sundays are festive
Happy hour 4pm to 6pm 
Telephone: + 506.2777.6310
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Barba Roja Restaurant
Centre of Manuel Antonio on Manuel Antonio Road
One of Manuel Antonio's oldest restaurants 
Great Seafood and epic sunset!

(View from Restaurante Barba Roja January 2013)


(One of our favorite photos from Barba Roja November 2007)

Saturday, February 6, 2010

Swimming with Hammherheads......

Warm up!
300 yards swim
300 yards pull down ( with "Pull/Pool Buoy").

Ok,  first drill 12 x 50 yard 'pull' swims ( with pool buoy) in 1 minute 10 second intervals. Every third 25 yard breathing every fifth stroke!

Now the workout starts! ( 1650 yards or one pool  mile. completed in 26.08 minutes) 66 laps

Swim 500 yards rest 20 seconds,
Swim 400 yards, rest 20 seconds
Swim 300 yards, rest 20 seconds,
Swim 200 yards, rest 20 seconds,
Swim 100 yards, rest 10 seconds,
Swim 50 yards, rest 10 seconds, (Coach yelling "ALL OUT")
Swim 50 yards, rest 10 seconds,
Swim 50 yards, and now your done!

As a child growing up in the city of Somerville MA, my dad took me to swimming lessons in the winter time. In the summer I was sent to overnight camp in New Hampshire or Maine. It was at camp where I had more lessons and my love for swimming grew. One year, the coach at camp was an Olympic swimmer from 1968 Summer games! ( I thought that was really cool!).I played water polo at College for three years, and I played in a summer league in Bermuda in 1982.

Now that I spend winters in Florida, I swim with the Hammerhead Aquatics Masters Swim Club. This internationally recognized club/team has some great members, and a nationally ranked coach, John Grzeszczak. When going to practice,  I never know what to expect for drills or workouts. Coach John will push us in different directions: sometimes we will focus on speed, agility, or stroke. Working out  in a speedo  in south Florida during the winter, too much fun!
I love swimming in Florida. All the pools are outdoors, and heated to at least 81 degrees. Fort Lauderdale is known as the swimming capital of America, its home to the International Swimming Hall of Fame

Part of our prerequisite for buying a house in FL, is that it had to have a  gratuitous pool ( not a dipping pool, which is now de rigueur in south Florida...). Our pool is 30 feet long!


I think mission statements are important. They reflect the philosophy of the organization. This is the Hammerhead mission statement:

Our mission is to promote swimming as a form of exercise and lifelong friendships as a member club of UNITED STATES MASTERS SWIMMING. We accept anyone regardless of race,age,disability, or economic income. We are also active in our community to help the less fortunate through fundraising in the local community and giving of ourselves. We want to create a great life experience for each individual in our program.


Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Wilton Manors, FL scenes part I


I spend winters in Wilton Manors, Florida. Wilton Manors is a small urban city in south Florida next to Fort Lauderdale.  Called the "Island City" because the city is surrounded rivers and canals. The city is less than 2 square miles. The city is in close proximity to all  Fort Lauderdale has to offer: Beaches, Museums, public transport and highways.
The Middle River seperates Fort Lauderdale from Wilton Manors. Kayakers and boaters alike use the canals and rivers for recreation. Rivers and canals lead to the ocean.

















Wiltion Manors also has a large gay popualtion. It is estimated that over 40 percent of the population is gay.